There are lots of women who have good romantic lives, but who still consider themselves shy around guys at heart, and wish they weren't so inhibited at times.
There are women who were pretty shy in high school and during the first year or two of college, and it delayed the start of their dating lives somewhat, but they got worked through the worst of it by their early twenties.
Having sex for the first time can bring up a whopping amount of anxiety and fear.
This is especially true for guys because of the pressure to perform.
It was some sort of an “accomplishment” to say you “popped a girl’s cherry.” Now, in my adult years, men talk about dealing with virgins with an air of dismay.
Others pointed out how shy women have their own struggles as well.
She would be able to mold him into the exact kind of lover she wanted, and it would be a great feeling to know that the guy would never forget about her if the relationship didn’t work out.
Of course there were the ones who were completely against dating a man who was a virgin and viewed it as a major turn-off.
Even though sex seems like something foreign and new, everyone starts off the same way.
With time comes experience, so don’t be too hard on yourself.