Then I missed her, we made up, and I tried to pretend I was okay with her dating him. Hearing her talk about him was torture for me, being with them together was even harder.
I was miserable, angry, and felt so betrayed, but I was trying to hide it because I didn’t want to lose my friend. and after they broke up, him and I got close again, and we started dating.
So a part of me wants to tell her in the hopes that she would be happy for me, but when I put myself in her shoes hearing this news, I think I'd be devastated.
Well, me and this guy started sleeping together about two weeks ago and we're crazy about each other. My feeling is that she would be very hurt, but at the same time I don't want to pass up a chance to be with someone who could turn out to be the love of my life, you know?
It all comes down to how your friend feels about it. Remember, it’s a tricky situation and if you don’t do your homework, you could lose your best friend. If it’s been a few years and your bestie has definitely moved on, give it a go. You were a good friend and kept your feelings to yourself for long enough.
Pay close attention to when it is and isn’t okay to date her ex.
The title of "Her Man" may only be given by the aforementioned woman.
If it is found that she has more than one "Man", all titles are null and void, and it is considered bad form to continue to spend time with her.